Tag: understanding


  • Sober Alcoholics: (The Weird Connection)

    I sometimes wonder why my tribe sticks around. I’m sure I don’t have a great smile, hell, I’m not even funny. Definitely not the sound of my voice, even I can’t stand listening to myself. But, whenever I’m on my own, I still feel their presence around me. I’m not the one to pick up […]

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  • Rewire the brain (stories for when we get successful)

    Is it possible to rewire your brain? Take it from me, it IS possible.Allow me to take you back to 2011.2011, I was doing grade ten at Holy Cross High School, a brilliant school in the Eastern Cape, Mthatha. At the time I was not learned in neuroscience but I had trained my mind to […]

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  • Sober Alcoholics: Solace

    Trying times. Turbulent tides.The storms keeps getting worse.I’ve projected myself as strong, I’m obliged to keep going.It’s a heavy burden, I can’t believe I’ve carried it for so long. I want to stop and pause for second.But being idle makes the journey longer.If nothing is done, there’s no progress in the struggle.So in order to […]

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  • Be the friend you want to see in the world

    There are many things that we are taught to be as we grow, and in the midst of taking on numerous roles for everyone else, we neglect being there for ourselves. Showing great love to one another and self-love do not have to be two exclusive acts. If anything, these can give and take from each other if we let them “You can’t pour from an empty cup”

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